I always find it disturbing when people are hyper-critical. Being honest, constructive criticism, all that – sure. But just plain critical. Finding something wrong no matter what. I personally find this is very bad personality trait.
Do you look at a field of options, of opportunity, of suggestions and only see things to criticize? Only see what’s wrong with the picture instead of what’s right? That’s just not right.
Do you look at a portfolio of stocks and see the 1 that has had a loss and comment on it? Do you look at a clean and organized house and find the dirty spot? See a cute girl and see why she’s not beautiful? Do you look at anything and everything and only see what’s wrong? Well…you should figure out what the hell is wrong with YOU and it’s not the thing you see in others. Take a deeper look..
5:33 pm on August 22nd, 2009
Well said. It’s difficult being in the presence of someone who is so critical all the time. You want to shake them and say – is there NOTHING that you like? I agree -it is a major character flaw.