My husband has some douchebag friends. I have always known this and, of course, this is probably what most girlfriends or wives think about at least 1 friend of their boyfriend or husband so it’s not news. And I don’t *really* care. But today it just set me off.
Husband went snowboarding with a few friends and apparently one asked why I never go. What do I do all day? Gee…I wonder if husband told him that I supervised the magic fairies who clean the entire house? Or do who the laundry? Or who pay all the bills? Or who take the huskies out for hours on end? Or, when back at home and not in Tahoe, run all of the errands? This is of course after work or on the weekends. After she has worked 50-60 hours a week for 2 companies? And who finally takes an hour or 2 to watch a movie or read for herself…by herself? No…I’m pretty sure that wasn’t the answer husband gave.
Probably also wonders why I don’t want to spend time with his lame ass friends…
8:44 pm on February 21st, 2010
Deep breath – I’m sure he appreciates all you do but just forgets to express it. If not, he better figure out how tout suite.
6:48 am on February 22nd, 2010
I’m sure your husband knows that you’re AMAZING! And he’s lucky to be with you. ;) I’m sure it’s just a guy thing that he felt awkward expressing it to his buddies on their “macho” outing. I think a big hug from your lovely Angelus and Storm is in order! Take care.
11:03 am on February 25th, 2010
Well said.
My husband has one of those friends. Unmarried, no children, having an affair with a taken woman, & would love to see my husband in similar conditions.