..his family said he always told them no funeral. No sadness. He wanted to be cremated and any gathering should be a big party – otherwise he wanted nothing at all.
So tonight we gathered at his favorite post-bike ride restaurant in the hills of Marin with the most beautiful views of the trails he loved and shared stories. Shared pictures. Laughed. Cried.
We all said at one time or another throughout the evening that we were just waiting for him to walk through the door and say “don’t tell that story!” But he didn’t. At least not in any physical form.
He definitely left behind many people whose lives he touched. Who he made smile and laugh. A friendship they clearly valued.
I hope he would have liked tonight. I think he would have. We will all miss him very much.
Time for bed. Long day after a long week. Always remember to tell your friends how important they are to you.
11:56 am on March 7th, 2010
You know they say that everyone attends their own funeral. I think he would have enjoyed it. We did something similar for my mom when she passed – because she loved get-togethers and celebrations. I think it’s better to celebrate someone’s life in a joyful way. And it helps loved ones reflect on fond memories and laughter. Hope you’re well. Peace.
2:43 pm on March 9th, 2010
Those gatherings are always the worst – hopefully you won’t get the chance to practice this too much and gain the proper etiquette.
Oh, and by the way, words can never express how important you are to me. ;)