{"id":10949,"date":"2021-07-16T21:14:08","date_gmt":"2021-07-17T04:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/?p=10949"},"modified":"2022-01-13T14:14:38","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T21:14:38","slug":"mean-girls-and-boys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/?p=10949","title":{"rendered":"Mean Girls (and boys)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I did not go to public high school. So I &#8220;missed out&#8221; on the social cancer known as the clique. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Later in life I saw it in action &#8211; at work, in collecting groups, neighborhoods, forums, etc. But thankfully, have not been involved in 1 so that I am either the aggressive a-hole or the victim.  Probably mostly because I simply do not care. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mean at work I was HR so if I saw something like that I kept an eye on you and assumed you were schmuck. I love my hobbies. My &#8220;fandoms&#8221;. But if I have to spend any time thinking about crappy people &#8211; meh. And neighborhood? I&#8217;ve been blessed with great neighbors at both my long term residences. And if you are not in my direct neighborhood &#8211; I don&#8217;t have the mental energy to expend. Reading Nextdoor is akin to burning your eye sockets with acid. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the whole fandom bashing is weird to me.  You like the same thing. Why are you an asshole? If you disagree with something &#8211; move on. NOT HARD. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I see it regularly. And that sucks. Can&#8217;t we all just get along. Kumbayah. Namaste. May the Force Be with you. Love Long and Prosper. Greed is Good (wait&#8230;different group..) Etc. Etc. Etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I did not go to public high school. So I &#8220;missed out&#8221; on the social cancer known as the clique. Later in life I saw it in action &#8211; at work, in collecting groups, neighborhoods, forums, etc. But thankfully, have not been involved in 1 so that I am either the aggressive a-hole or the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[543,37,43,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10949","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","category-pop-culture","category-rants","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10949","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10949"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10949\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10950,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10949\/revisions\/10950"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10949"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10949"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10949"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}