{"id":10080,"date":"2012-07-24T06:56:14","date_gmt":"2012-07-24T13:56:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/?p=10080"},"modified":"2012-07-24T06:56:14","modified_gmt":"2012-07-24T13:56:14","slug":"guys-dont-be-such-jerks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/?p=10080","title":{"rendered":"Guys &#8211; don&#8217;t be such jerks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have learned my lesson. Don&#8217;t post personal info or pics online for the world to see unless you truly don&#8217;t care what the world spits back at you. <\/p>\n<p>I used to never, ever post any pictures of myself or information about myself online. My FB account is as locked down as it could be. I don&#8217;t even accept friend requests from people I do know. Just because I knew you at one time, does not mean I want to continue that. I ignore most LinkedIn requests. But twitter&#8230;for some reason I always felt more free to talk on twitter. I didn&#8217;t use my name, I certainly never used their location-tracking (had 1 real life stalker in the past, didn&#8217;t need another) and it was just silly fun blah blah anyway. <\/p>\n<p>The only pics I EVER used to post were of the huskies or Star Wars related stuff. I was pretty locked down in my opinion. Kind of how I am in real life. But then I went to Comic Con a couple years ago and ended up posting a few of me with various stuff around SDCC. No harm. And no weirdness. So I let my guard down and posted a couple from Niners games or whatever over time. <\/p>\n<p>Then this year I went to SDCC and posted some pics again. And I&#8217;m not sure what happened. Is it me? Did I just happen to collect a few weirdo followers on twitter? Who knows. And usually I only follow people back if they reach out to me and comment and I see their feed and they seem normal. Apparently my judgement sucks. But by the wholly inappropriate series of direct messages sent to me last night &#8211; for the 3rd time (3rd different person) &#8211; it has become clear I am going back to posting pictures of huskies and Star Wars related stuff. And that&#8217;s it. I deleted some of the pics last night and will probably go back and just do them all.<\/p>\n<p>No big loss to the world, the huskies are way cuter anyway, but I really wish guys would get it through their fn heads that most girls really don&#8217;t like being talked to in a such a manner. Certainly not by people they do not know. I&#8217;ve thrown drinks in guys faces at bars for less but on twitter\/online there is no drink to throw. Just block and move on. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not always as cold and unfeeling as I appear to be. But maybe I&#8217;ll get there. Until then, keep the walls up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have learned my lesson. Don&#8217;t post personal info or pics online for the world to see unless you truly don&#8217;t care what the world spits back at you. I used to never, ever post any pictures of myself or information about myself online. My FB account is as locked down as it could be. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[543],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10080","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10080","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10080"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10080\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10081,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10080\/revisions\/10081"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10080"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10080"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/a99kitten.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10080"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}